IF I WERE YOU............

IF I WERE YOU............

 

Last week, Grandma surprised us with a visit. Her presence has always made our home wonderful. 

She called my siblings and me after noticing a decline in our characters and some areas that I can't place. You know how Grandmothers are.🤗

These were her wise words...👇👇👇

If I were you, I would respect my parents wholeheartedly and give both younger and older the respect they deserve.

If I were you, I would do the household chores assigned to me at home like a leadership duty.

If I were you, I wouldn't wait to be told to take care of myself; I would prioritize self-care.

If I were you, I would cut off every distraction and focus on my studies.

If I were you, I would leave boyfriend/girlfriend for now and rather focus on making my parents and myself proud.

If I were you, I would stop being complacent, and bag more achievements.

If I were you, I would leave pride alone, and strive to be humble.

If I were you, I would seek to be a peacemaker, than a noisy cymbal.

If I were you, I would reject every offer that comes with a condition of belittling my standards.

If I were you I would set principles to guide me, than live aimlessly.

If I were you, I would focus on marrying right at the right age rather than getting overwhelmed by the  saying, “Marriage is a scam; you'll never be happy in it.”

If I were you, I would focus on being the best in my line of vocation/education, and everyone would recommend me for their work.

If I were you, I would leave my comfort zone and attend programs, seminars, or conferences that would shape my life.

If I were you, I would accept everyone irrespective of their background, opinions, and imperfections.

If I were you, I would strive to correct the mistakes our forefathers made, not add more to the current situation.

If I were you, I would be ready to prepare for the unexpected when it happens.

If I were you, I would move on with a cheerful spirit even when things don't go my way.

If I were you, I would never judge anyone without finding the reason behind their attitude.

If I were you, I would not push myself to people instead, I would behave in a way that attracts them to my direction.

If I were you, I would learn to say capital “NO”

If I were you, I would set time to chill and play, but still with a consciousness of more to achieve.

If I were you, I would remain optimistic.

Her words were like a punch, striking a chord within me. Which of these wisdom nuggets resonated with you the most? Do you have a favourite piece of advice from your Grandma to share? Share in the comments below!

 

©️𝐎𝐥𝐮𝐰𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐨𝐟𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐲𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐧𝐦𝐢𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐬

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